I can’t seem to keep up.
Surely, I’m not the only one who finds myself caught off guard by how quickly Christmas emerges from under the wrapping paper and twinkling lights. And yet, just as quickly as the Christmas spirit with all its tidings of good cheer comes, it goes—leaving me staring a new year blankly in the face.
If I’m intentional, I can chart a clear path forward and roll with it. However, it’s altogether tempting to fall into familiarity—a rinse-and-repeat pattern of goals that feel routine: getting back in the gym (the same fat demon fitness challenge that wrecks me every year), eating right, resetting my finances, committing to a budget or picking up a new hobby or skill.
The new year often feels like a clean slate, and that’s a good thing. But some years (like maybe this one), it feels like I’m being prompted to pursue something beyond the ordinary.
I’m a pretty good goal setter. Ringing in the New Year has always provided an opportunity for me to craft a plan for each quarter—outlining ministry goals, travel and activities to make time with my family meaningful.
But, even now, as I lean into this process, I want more than the status quo. This year I’m experiencing a different kind of curiosity about what God could be wanting more from me in the new year. Perhaps there is more to discover beyond my carefully crafted plans?
An old and yet refreshingly new truth has gotten my attention. What if our goals can be life-changing and simple simultaneously? The fullness of life God desires for you and me is experienced when we extend His love to those around us.
As I recall significant moments from the past year that mark my memory, I noticed a common thread woven through them all: kindness. In every memory worth cherishing, someone’s generosity had been a spark that brought life to the experience.
Whether it was a word of encouragement, a helping hand or an act of giving, kindness left an impression—not just on me but on everyone involved. The reality is that kindness doesn’t just bless others; it transforms your heart and mind too.
Ephesians 4:32 (CEB) tells us to “be kind, compassionate, and forgiving to each other, in the same way God forgave you in Christ.”
As I step into the new year, I’m reminded that the something more I’m seeking might not be found in bigger goals or busier schedules. Instead, it could be found in smaller, intentional acts of kindness.
This year, I’m challenging myself to make kindness a habit. To go beyond resolutions and routines. To live generously, reflect God’s love in my actions and create memories that leave a mark not only on me but on others.
After all, the gift of kindness isn’t just for Christmas—it’s a gift that carries on all year long.
What about you? What could happen if kindness became a cornerstone of your new year? How would that change how you feel about your mark on the world? How would that impact those you say you love?
“In the same way, let your light shine before people, so they can see the good things you do and praise your Father who is in heaven” – Matthew 5:16 CEB
